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WedWednesdayAprApril13th2011 The Story
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I am naturally a shy person. And it takes awhile before I feel safe enough to completely let me guard down.  But once I feel safe in a new friendship I am true and loyal to the end. The song, The Story, is definitely one of my favorites.  It will lift my mood in an instant if I’m feeling down.  I think what I like most about it is it reminds me that no matter what I am going through in my life I have people who want to hear about it.  I am surrounded by a community of people who know me, care for me, and genuinely want to walk life with me.  I am of course talking about my husband, Chris. But it’s not just him. I feel like the artist is referring to only one person in the song, but I am fortunate to live life intertwined with others beyond my immediate family.  That brings great comfort to me.  However, because I am an introvert I could have missed out on sharing my story with those I live life with.  It would be very easy for me to sit back and go about taking care of my own family without ever stepping out of my comfort zone into other relationships. I know this is not how God has designed us.  He creates us with relationship in mind.  He creates us so that we will tell our stories to others and they in turn will share their own.


One of my favorite lines in the song is:

 

“All of my friends who think that I’m blessed, they don’t know my head is a mess”

 

I think one of the hardest things for me to overcome as a young woman is not having to walk around as if everything is perfect all the time.  It’s a lie even if I try.  The wonderful thing is through stepping out and trusting others (over time) with my raw emotions and thoughts I don’t have to pretend.  I can be the “real” me and not be afraid of rejection.  I can share the messiness that does go on inside my head knowing that as part of my story it will be embraced by others that I choose to share it with.  And as we see-saw through life sharing our stories back and forth that bond of friendship and love will grow stronger.


Becca Graves


Purchase The Story by Brandi Carlile

SatSaturdayFebFebruary19th2011 Sober

It is hard when we find ourselves so deep into something that we know we shouldn’t be involved in.  Sometimes it’s easier just to keep going in the same direction, making the same mistakes and following the same behavioral patterns.  It is comfortable staying where you think it’s normal.

In order for our “normal” to be changed we must first change our habits and recognize the sin that is holding us back.  And for that to happen, our perception of reality must be redefined.

As followers we are called by Jesus to “Seek First His Kingdom and His Righteousness, and then He promises we will have all we need.” (Matthew 6:33)

However, it is also true that our willpower is limited.  Our intentions are good, but our follow through doesn’t always come through.

 

For me, I found comfort in the song Sober, by Kelly Clarkson. 

One part of the song that I love is:

 

Three months and I’m still breathing

Been a long road since those hands I left my tears in

But I know it’s never really over

 

We all struggle with something or someone and I find that this song is a great reminder that we take things one day at a time.  And we take delight in the small milestones that we come across. And as Followers of Christ we have one more thing to delight in during the hard times and relapses, God wants us to lean on Him and find refuge in Him.  In Hebrews 13:5 God promises to never leave us nor to forsake us. 

Here’s a quote that I love: Having issues isn’t the absence of victory in our lives.  It’s simply reminding us victory is right around the corner.

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